also: as i came home just now, my other best friends (the six year old twins i watch) are huddled with a friend, lighting a leaf on fire.  we wrestle a bit and i take the matches away, and as they run inside to appeal my ’no matches’ rule to their mother, she rolls her eyes and said “don’t ask me why, but pierre (their father) said it’s okay.  i know, crazy.  thanks for looking out, but, um, it’s okay.”

also perfect.